Quantum health is connected to sexual health.
Energy science is a science at the border of spirituality and connection to the Oneness, of whatever name you prefer to use. Sexual release is charging up and/or releasing our energy fields.
Listening to our own heart or gut is listening to our unspoken brain. Our nervous system has tissue within both the heart and gut, and it may have more impact on our feelings than we realize - but then we tend to rationalize with words those unspoken feelings.
*This is the post for mature readers - PG13-17. Sexual body parts and topics are discussed.
The video for Hold on my heart, Genesis, 2007 remix (youtube) has imagery suggesting a quantum connection between the two main characters - universal touch of the heart, creating a longing that was eventually shared. Quantum entanglement may help explain odd ghost stories and maybe the bond that lets someone know when their loved one is in trouble or is on the phone and that call should be answered.
We want love, but we want reciprocity - a feeling that the love is returned, that care is there, and that person may help in a time of need. Trust is built with small exchanges that show expectations will be met - you can trust that the person will do as they say or as you expect. Trust is lost when expectations are repeatedly not met or when even worse things happen than expected.
The problem with growing up as a child trauma survivor is that your expectations of love and harm may be mingled - love hurts, doesn’t it? Physical pain is just part of it? No? Not necessarily. People with their own unhealed trauma can and do hurt others, unintentionally maybe or spitefully, and well-meaning people can too.
My initial trauma experience was as a toddler, so my emotional development would have been somewhat fractured at that stage of growing independence and seeking autonomy. I think it pushed me into being more of a loner and independent - I can’t trust ogre people to help me, can I? In my recurring nightmare of a drowning type of event when water was being dumped on my head (a Dr. Spock recommended parenting strategy for tantrums - I don’t recommend it), there are two ogre like figures towering over a crying child - viewed from the ceiling - which suggests an out of body experience to a therapist. She suggested EMDR therapy which helps the person into a deeply relaxed state that is not quite hypnosis.
As a trauma survivor, I tend to befriend or care for other child trauma survivors. We share some issues including difficulty trusting others. With EMDR, the therapist helped me to look at the event from an adult perspective - they - the orge figures - were just young parents who didn’t know better, but what core messages did it leave with me? Answer from my deeply relaxed state: That I don’t deserve love, or touch, or comfort, and that I am a bad child that does deserve punishment. Self injury may be a very old belief that you deserve pain and punishment.
I have been a self-injurer and was in a bad relationship far too long, devalued and over-worked regarding running a household but without single person control over decisions or budget. I don’t deserve punishment for no reason, no one does, and I don’t need to hurt myself anymore. I didn’t know better; my parent’s communication skills provided me with what they had to offer.
We get closed off in energy from emotional pain or lack of social bonds. Body armoring is a phrase for the symptoms which can include muscle cramping enough to lose function. My throat would close when trying to talk about emotional topics which would literally make it difficult to speak until I was calmer. That problem got better after the EMDR therapy and some EMDR style guided meditation CDS (BrainSync).
Acupuncture and Reiki and Chakra work are all working with our energy fields. During health we have flow throughout the body with seven centers that have more powerful vortexes. Having a blocked chakra means that site is not registering any energy let alone a strong circular vortex of energy flow. Brendan D. Murphy discusses blockages in our root/sacral energy fields as being common in modern society. (1) I was blocked in two spots when I first read about chakras and checked (with the help of another person). The body’s energy vortex centers are strong enough to cause a dangling pendulum that has been hanging still to start moving, slowly at first but it can pick up pace and end up swinging in a circle. Blocked chakras don’t move the pendulum at all. I was less blocked when trying it again more recently.
Energy fields are being used for wound healing. We are energy beings, and our vibrations can be affected by music or loud traffic or EMF.
A Reiki healer has a very short video showing herself ‘building up’ a ball of energy between her hands and then sending it outward for distant healing. (3) I don’t know how well distant healing would work from a video recorded in the past, but the woman’s body language is loving and caring - and more to the point - DO try this at home. The ball of energy feeling is something anyone likely could feel if they slowed down enough to try and to pay attention to very subtle feelings.
I have always been able to feel a warm fuzzy feeling between my hands after rubbing my hands together a little to get the blood moving. It is more than body warmth though. As you move your hands into the ball shape and pull slightly apart, and return again closer together but not touching, repeat a few times, then you may be able to sense a magnetic like pulling sensation when your hands are about one to two inches apart. Holding the fingers in the ball like shape does seem to help - shown in the video. (2) Note - I have never been trained on forming or feeling the energy ball between my hands and just happened on the video by searching “reiki feeling the ball of energy in your hands vide” spelling error included.
Touch is healing. A society that disrupts families and promotes sexuality as something about power and make-up and an exchange of money or prenuptial agreements is missing out on the health benefits of a positive emotional connection, even if it isn’t a decades long marriage. Emotional connection is healing. The faith of spirituality, within an organized religion or solo, seems to me to be healing and helpful to the faithful person. Not considering other aspects of religious rules on the person, the faith seems to be a love relationship with a sense of continual connection to the Oneness (of whatever name preferred). How can we feel lonely when we know that we are never alone? We don’t, we no longer feel alone. We are always connected to the universal love - once we recognize that we were never alone in the first place.
Authoritarian takeover generally includes breakup of marriages and more exploitation and degradation of females. Women protect children and teach children values. An authoritarian system wants to put children in entrainment centers that teach values of being obedient to the system. Currently being a vigilante and being “gender dysphoric” also seem to be part of the indoctrination by mainstream messaging. Having confused citizens is a goal for the authoritarian takeover - how can anyone focus on resisting a slow slide into a prison state, especially if white gloves and silver spoons are used (it seems pleasant), when they are focused on figuring out whether to wear make-up and high heels, or to meme about other people who are wearing too much make-up and weird shoes.
As a youth in the 70s, I liked the free love hippie ethic of the 60s and freedom for women seemed to be making great progress. High heels seemed just as much a symbol of oppression to me as the bras that some women were burning. I was very disappointed when TV and fashion brought stiletto heels into fashion again for practically all women around the 90s. They are disabling to the Achilles tendon and/or toes, and a Cigarette Box type warning should be applied to the shoeboxes, in my opinion.
Why are the symbol of powerful (possibly short) men of King Louis of France/Off With His Head era (high heel shoes) still in use today?
A) Because men like to look at women’s legs when perched precariously on stiletto heels? B) Because women like to be disabled by fashion? C) Because women like to look expensive and current? D) Because women now like the shoes because their leg tendons no longer feel comfortable in low heels? E) A, C, and D; F) Because women like to have men look at their legs?
These might seem like silly questions - but why is modern life so uncomfortable? And so unhealthy? #FirstWorldProblems is a great phrase to describe these sorts of ills that we brought on ourselves, which anyone who was really working to survive would never have bothered with in the first place - because they are too busy working.
I digress - our energy fields can be grounded by being close to the ground, barefoot ideally on clean sand or dirt or rock. Just stand there for 15-20 minutes and you may feel more refreshed afterwards. Maybe play with your ball of energy if you get bored. (2) Once the energy is flowing you can use if for self-healing or for others. If you have any achy spots, rest the palms of your hands on or just above the area in pain for self-Reiki. You may feel increased warmth and a slight flow like movement of energy.
In the more recent study of orgone (aether) energy discovered by Wilhelm Reich and others, it seems to be not quite magnetic or electrical in nature. It is also not radioactive energy, but it can be negatively affected by radiation and then be illness inducing rather than healing. Think about an old musty room with stale air - it is low in aether flow - stagnant energy. There is more aether energy in fast moving air and higher up in elevation - a mountaintop monastery or hermit retreat would be good locations for more aether flow. A cement basement would have low aether energy flow.
Now switching mental pics - an old handpump for a well. To prime the pump and get the water flowing, you have to pump the handle up and down quite a few times. To prime our own pumps, for bodily fluids and energy, we need to do some rhythmic exercise on a daily basis. Walking briskly with the arms pumping is a good one. There are other rhythmic exercises that can increase lymphatic flow and energy flow too.
“How do hydraulic pumps work?
A hydraulic pump is a mechanical device that converts mechanical power into hydraulic energy. It generates flow with enough power to overcome pressure induced by the load.
A hydraulic pump performs two functions when it operates. Firstly, its mechanical action creates a vacuum at the pump inlet, subsequently allowing atmospheric pressure to force liquid from the reservoir and then pumping it through to the inlet line of the pump. Secondly, its mechanical action delivers this liquid to the pump outlet and forces it into the hydraulic system.” (hydraulicsonline.com)
Rhythmic motion within a vacuum, like suction pressure, increases pressure on fluid within the enclosed system and draws it inward.
Wilhelm Reich, orgone, early trauma and body armoring.
Wilhelm Reich discovered the unusual energy form by taking measurements from people in action first. He later learned how to collect and use the orgone energy. Orgne ishis word - organic life force or possibly orgasm. He was studying sexuality. He learned ways to use the energy for healing and how to manipulate it to affect the weather. He was able to promote rain in dry regions by attracting moisture from nearby regions which could be a political/international issue; 2012 Iran/Israel. The technique has been replicated and used in drought areas.
Wilhelm Reich was a psychiatrist initially, working at the time of Freud but his clinical successes took him in a different direction - he disagreed with Freud’s theories about the cause of mental illness. Reich found that helping patients work through any sexual inhibition and shame type of issues often also helped their physical and mental symptoms resolve. Body armoring was something he observed and treated with emotional methods and much later incorporated the aether healing devices into the work. His daughter continued the work with body armoring therapy.
What are dog’s thinking?
Switching gears slightly, What is Love? What is a Dog’s Love? or more simply: What are dogs thinking? is a question that a dog loving MRI specialist studied in a creative way. (3) He didn’t seem to get the answer about a dog’s love that he expected though and seemed disappointed by his shelter pet. He had lost a long-term dog friend and it led to his looking for answers about what dogs might be thinking. I suspect early puppyhood trauma is involved in his shelter dog’s results.
Dogs were trained with love and hot dog treats to stay still in an MRI machine while wearing ear protection. As the project was successful, it grew to include many dogs and owners (~ 20). An interesting finding as the initial research question was expanded on, was that some dogs showed more dopamine increase at the “Treat coming” hand signal for their owners than for a stranger or for a computer image of the same hand signal. Dogs trained as Seeing Eye type dogs tended to react more to the owner than the stranger or computer. The brain imaging of the MRI specialist’s shelter dog showed more activity for the stranger or computer hand signal than for the specialist. (3) That is a little sad. I would suggest instead of feeling sad, instead consider that a shelter dog likely had trauma in their past and had to learn to accept help and possibly bond with anyone providing food and shelter.
Dogs and a few other species have the same more monogamous type of vasopressin/ oxytocin receptors as 60% of humans. When a dog bonds with an owner they will be receiving an extra burst of vasopressin (male) or oxytocin (female) every time they interact with their owner. This also means they can be emotionally harm and is hurting their feelings. Dogs can get PTSD and may be used as leverage in a domestic violence or emotional controlling situation, similarly to how child custody may be used to make someone stay. It is clear that they are hurting too. Dogs can also be an emotional support and see when their owner needs some extra touch and come over to be petted or just lay nearby.
Early trauma can lead to feeling that punishment is deserved and love isn’t.
Child trauma survivors can be at greater risk for revictimization because that core value of “I deserve punishment” is sadly not uncommon among early childhood trauma survivors. As toddlers we are the center of the world, everything revolves around us and in reverse, would seem to be caused by us. Mom and dad had a bad day - my fault, not the boss at work or car breaking down. In later stages of development, the preschooler learns that they are just part of a bigger world and not everything has to do with them. (Piaget)
When the punishment message is also linked to love - those who love me also hurt me, then it can be normal for the child and later adult to continue having that core feeling that love and trauma are just connected. Someone who doesn’t hit or yell or be controlling, might seem like they don’t “love” you - or why aren’t they acting jealous or getting mad occasionally? Don’t they care? Then that feeling might lead to trying to induce anger or jealousy in order to get a bigger “loving” reaction. Nope, nope, nope - none of that is necessary or healthy - but the child trauma survivor may not realize what the pattern is as they keep entering bad relationships or being hurt by random strangers. At the core, the problem is still a lonely toddler that just would like to be hugged occasionally instead of being hit and may be willing to put up with too much hitting, devaluing, or overwork, in order to get that occasional hug.
Child trauma survivors tend to stay in bad situations because they don’t want to be abandoned again. The way out of the cycle is to build more self-love and self-acceptance - stuff happened, it wasn’t great, some of it may have been your own fault, some of it may have been really unreasonable abuse - but today is now and that was then.
Time to start telling yourself that you are worthy and valuable and don’t deserve to be hit instead of hugged. It also takes making your own decisions and doing your own chores, being controlled can start getting comfortable as you don’t have to make any decisions or take any accountability - that was someone else’s bad decision and now I feel more victimized and will blame that person.
Being a survivor is taking charge, being accountable for your own life.
Taking accountability would require recognizing that you had allowed the bad decision and decision maker to rule over your life too and what are YOU going to do about that now? Allow it to keep happening? Float along on a series of ongoing bad decisions because someone else is in charge of your life? Or take control over your own decisions and energy and get it moving toward healthier directions? You may make some goofs too, but they will be your own goofs and that is okay. We learn by trying, not by floating along with whoever seems confidently in charge.
Trauma can leave us very susceptible to falling in love with manipulative people.
Reciprocity - is the love returned? Is the decision making shared? Are you listened to? Do you listen? Relationships are work and do have ups and downs, but it shouldn’t be more stress and pain than staying overly long at work. If you don’t want to go home, then maybe that isn’t home anymore.
It took me many years to get this far, and it took a lot of help from many people, and heckling. We learn by trying, modifying, retrying, and by listening to other’s experiences. One of those two strategies can save time.
Is love addictive? Yes, it can be, because it involves dopamine.
Returning to the question of What is Love or a Dog’s Love? It is an increase in dopamine in the reward center of the brain in the MRI specialist’s study. When there is an increase in vasopressin or oxytocin there is also an increase in dopamine. Dopamine can be addictive. A dog’s love may be a little like an addict who can’t get enough of that good feeling, but more devoted and loving and protective.
The shelter dog’s reaction being stronger to the unknown person or computer symbol may indicate that there was no fear of pain or expectations with the unknown person or symbol. Think about it from the dog’s perspective - it went from living at a shelter with food and warmth given for no particular reason, to living with a person who regularly expected the dog to participate patiently in odd training sessions for treats instead of simply providing the dog with treats. That is a working relationship, not a love bond from puppyhood.
In Wilhelm Reich’s work discovering orgone/aether energy he was measuring sexual release (orgasm being the hot button word) and it may be a need to release pent up energy or receive it. The interesting findings as he continued was that an emotional bond does count. More of the measurable orgone energy was released during sexual activity of a bonded couple than with a couple that weren’t in a love relationship with each other. (Yes, he was ahead of his time - was run out of Nazi Germany, Stalin Russia, and finally imprisoned by 50s Cold War US. Note - none of them disproved his work, nor did Einstein.)
We likely want a bond and will fall in love with our abuser or captor like in hostage situations (Stockholm syndrome), because we prefer love to feeling abused and there is an instinct I think, that sharing intimacy will form more of a caring bond in the abuser/captor. Not necessarily true though, they may be a sadist who likes to cause pain, or a psychopath without normal empathy.
More realistically, there may simply be an instinct in more poly genetics to “Love the one you’re with.” - Stephen Stills (YouTube). We need love and this person is here and is loving and that is a good thing to share…if a baby would be an okay event…if it happened. Property rights and food scarcity led to babies being a burden for a family - another mouth to feed instead of another worker for the family farm. Women face more severe consequences than men for accidental babies. A baby is an 18-year investment of time and energy and hopefully lots of love.
Historically childbirth would have been risky, and the number of women compared to men in a population was likely skewed towards more men than women due to death during childbirth. Being protected from other men was a need for much of history for women and girls. Suggesting that women are unreasonable now for wanting a mate to be a protector and provider too is going against our instincts. Being pregnant and caring for youngsters is disabling and high calorie and time-consuming work. Why would any woman want to do that? (»>Oxytocin, and babies are cute.) A common theme in the Bible is encouragement or admonishment that young women should not shirk having children as it is a sacred duty or blessing (I am not a Bible scholar, those are not quotes).
It is nice that divorce got legalized but society still sanctions women more than men. Divorced men tend to retain their financial position while divorced women tend to lose ground.
Hydraulic pumps and Female movement during sex.
Returning to the physics of hydraulic pumps: Women are luckier though - their hydraulic pump is smaller and takes less work to prime but may need 20 minutes to warm up (yes, I am talking about the clitoris and vulva).
Reading academic research about sex is fairly amusing or emphasizes the need for more translational medicine science writers entering the field.
“We conclude that body movement is associated with more orgasms during vaginal intercourse, whereas precise rubbing of the clitoris with an immobilized body is not associated with more orgasms. Teaching women to move their pelvis and trunk in a swinging back-and-forth movement during vaginal intercourse might therefore facilitate reaching an orgasm, whereas encouraging them to self-stimulate the clitoris might be less helpful if done with an immobilized body.” (10)
While we are waiting for the additional science writers, I suggest watching an educational video about preventing or treating lymphedema in the lower legs, by Bob and Brad, physical therapist team on Youtube. They recommend doing the exercise routine two to three times a day, first thing in the morning and at night before bed. 10 Exercises for Leg Lymphedema (Swelling or Edema of the Lower Extremities) (Youtube, March 22, 2017) See your doctor first, especially in case of cardiac health problems.
Rhythmic exercise is a quantum energy field need. The ball of energy in the hands, may be harder to feel for someone whose chakras register as blocked/not spinning energy flowing from the base of the spine, up the spine and chest and neck to the top of the head, and just above. Our energy field is a cloud around us like you might see around a magnet in patterns revealed by light-weight iron filings. The first video about Kundalini energy suggests that being blocked is common and may even be a control strategy at some point. (1) Freeing our inner energy may help us feel that magnetic like pulse when we draw our hands close together and apart slightly. Like pulling taffy candy, there can be a slightly magnetic resistance feeling as you draw your hands apart and a slight resistance as you press them closer together (but not touching, it is about 1-2 inches apart for me.
Yoga in college was when I first felt a stream of warm energy along my spine during the meditative pose where you just lay there and breathe quietly, slowly clenching then releasing muscles from your toes up to your head, or the other direction; the technique is also used to teach the Relaxation Response in stress coping education. (4)
Female vocalization
One more uncomfortable question - Why do women make noise during sex? Probably to communicate that NOW is an ideal time to finish sending in the baby seeds. Another intrepid team of researchers studied the timing of female vocalization in relation to their orgasm (see the scene from the movie When Harry met Sally for an actress rendition) and learned that it occurs prior to the big event or with the man’s release. (9) The tone of the conclusion is that women vocalize prior to or with the man’s orgasm, not necessarily with her own — and therefore the purpose is to “manipulate” men. (9) The movie may have helped give that impression - yes women can fake it.
But for what purpose would there be in faking it evolutionarily? Female vocalization does occur spontaneously, or we wouldn’t know about it. Manipulate what? She and he are already there together - she already won him from other women. Viewing this from a viewpoint that women are not competitive in the way men are, might it not be about teamwork in baby making? What if the purpose is to signal to the man that she is now at peak readiness to receive some baby seeds - NOW - GO. It is a long journey for the sperm and her muscle motion and increased vaginal fluid is likely helpful for sperm to make it the full distance to her ovum. If the man is a regular mate her immune cells will recognize the sperm while foreign/new DNA cells might be removed more quickly. The man’s job is just step one of a longer journey for one his sperm to achieve conception.
Her reaching sexual climax initiates a series of muscle spasms along the column of the vagina which would also help draw sperm upward to reach the cervix and then it has to break through a mucus barrier. Her antibodies and immune cells can either help recognize the cell markers of mate’s sperm or repel a cell with unknown surface markers.
Her reaching peak enjoyment also may help with additional fluid from Skene’s gland ejaculate (another body part with minimal research available - the mysterious G spot - female version of the male’s prostate gland). The fluid may have additional functions we don’t know about.
Both rhythmic motion and fluid would help sperm move up the vagina to the cervix where it would need to make it through a defensive mucus layer. Female vocalization prior to male orgasm may be stimulating him to do so, at just the right moment for her own body to be fully receptive to his delivery.
Why do we love? To create the next generation. For comfort. For health. For energy flow and release.
Academics could probably reach an inconclusive conclusion with a million-dollar grant while the rest of us would likely simply agree that while having an orgasm is nice, having an orgasm at the same time as the person you love is much nicer - transcendent. The feeling is soul connection and universal connection.
Love is a gift to give and receive and it has little to do with make-up or high heels except men are visually stimulated more than females and females are often in an unconscious competition for a mate. Fantasy - the feeling of love is what women may need to reach the peak. It is exercise and being too tired to get over the edge is real for women, or was there the 20 minutes* warm up first? (*on average amount of time needed for females to become aroused with extra blood flow.) Medications or hypothyroidism can take away the ability to reach climax - the peak never happens, climbing/trying is too tiring and doesn’t work.
What’s your frequency?
What is love? Giving and receiving energy and we may need to be in tune with each other - have similar frequencies. My prenatal counseling experience included meeting many hundreds of babies each year, and more older toddlers and children. They vary from an early age. Some infants are happy to sit quietly and watch the world and don’t want too much stimulation, others squirm or crawl away and might be loudly rambunctious.
As adults we may need someone who isn’t constantly not matching in energy levels - one person makes the other exhausted from their activity and the other makes the active one more and more tense from trying to restrain their own energy. Sometimes differences are just differences - not good or bad people, simply not people well suited to spend a lot of time together. A blogger who writes about Tarot and other topics, has a post today that suggests when people separate it may be for the best, it may be their frequencies had changed and there are other people for them to meet somewhere else. Differences can include goals and concerns about social standing. Differences may be in maturing into oneself more while the other person stayed the same or grew in a different direction from earlier stages in the relationship.
Is love quantum? Are emotional bonds quantum? The energy flow is similar in other species and emotional bond receptor system is similar in dogs, horses and a few other species as that of humans. Is love an energy? It seems that yes is the answer because just thinking about the person can increase receptor output and lead to good feelings from the vasopressin (males) or oxytocin (females) and dopamine. Or is love learned? That is also possible - we are conditioned to love certain stereotypes and the celebrities that emulate the stereotypes.
Returning to the MRI dog training video - the scientist seemed focused on the idea that the purebred status of a dog had something to do with the reaction to an owner versus anyone or a computer symbol - but it might have more to do with how the puppy was raised. Dogs who were trained as Companion animals/Seeing Eye dogs tended to respond more strongly to the owner/handler. They would have been selected for intelligence of the breed and would be raised with care.
What is love? Soul to soul connection - soul to universe connection - transcendence. If body parts are the focus - then love may not be present - or it may. Caution is needed because touch can lead to forming an emotional connection with someone who otherwise is too different. Waiting to learn more about them before touch is included can prevent a preliminary falling in love and its risk of only seeing flaws or differences as cute quirks. The quirks may become more like sandpaper later on - an abrasive irritant.
Prince Charming is an example of “learning love” - a learned expectation of a romantic rescuer. We need to learn to rescue/love ourselves first and to know ourselves. My sexual identity is child trauma survivor who likes sex, instead of becoming more inhibited about it instead. That seems to be two directions early sex trauma can cause in children. My frequency is active. My body has autoimmune disease, and I am a grandma, so my focus is on education and helping the next generations to thrive, in love and health.
It would be nice to mesh with another soul in a partnership bond with good vibrations.
Disclaimer: This information is provided for educational purposes within the guidelines of fair use. While I am a Registered Dietitian this information is not intended to provide individual health guidance. Please see a health professional for individual health care purposes.
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Love is NOT about bunga bunga.
"There is no greater love than to laying down His Life for His friends."